Today I received this instant message on skype:

There are thousands of unhappy married women and men in every city, but they DO NOT want to leave their spouse. They want to stay married, but they want to have an affair without ever being caught. Our dating community is extremely popular!

Having an affair can be stressful because you never know if the other person involved is going to get attached to you. You just want to have an intimate encounter and nothing else.

A great thing about this Discreet Dating Community For Married People is that there is no cost to join. You can check it out, see if you like it, and then begin contacting married people for secret intimate encounters.

Press here if you want to have an affair with a married person: _

It’s why people prefer the dark to light; in the dark, things are muddier, unclear, fuzzy, soft, thus, more glamorous. You can pretend it glitters even when it doesn’t. The more intrigue, the better: it’s why people watch soap operas or dramas, because their own lives are just not exciting enough. As for it being secret, it adds weight to your own importance. Nothing does that better than knowing something that someone else doesn’t. It’s even better if it’s your own secret. Your own secret novel, with you as narrator, perhaps even in third person, always in the present tense–much more suspenseful and exciting that way. And heaven forbid that people judge you for this, why, that’s where anonymity comes in! It’s self-centeredness at its height–it’s not about the other person, no, it’s not about the other, other person, because you just want to have an intimate encounter and nothing else.

(I hope that when I am married, it will not be about me.

Much too much pressure.)